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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone to Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 3 days ago

shave your confession

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shave your confession

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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone to Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 3 days ago
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  • cows_are_underrated
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    I went the “easy route” by simply dropping “I’m trans” because I know myself well enough, that I would either chicken out mid sentence, or it would become super awkward.

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      that’s the strat

      • cows_are_underrated
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        Only downside is, that some people who aren’t that supportive might get a little shocked, especially when theres zero clues about you being trans, and therefore you might experience some quite shitty reactions (happened like that with my mum).

        • Ziglin (it/they)@lemmy.world
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          Or they might be confused, especially by the term non-binary… (definitely nothing that happened to me)

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            Had to explain what this means to my mother too.

        • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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          honestly, that’s a them problem

    • Emily (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      deleted by creator

  • dblsaiko@discuss.tchncs.de
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    I kinda want to wait long enough with my parents to a point where it has already become extremely obvious haha.

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      I wanted to do that too, but it didn’t work out. Turns out I really needed to be a total girl all the time.

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        Damn, yeah I heard people can be completely oblivious when they already know you for a long time. We’ll see!

        • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@reddthat.com
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          Surprising how oblivious people can be. With my parents, it took me 6 months to say something. I thought it was kinda obvious I had some changes by that point (small enough that it would be easy to hide but I didn’t always wear extra layers) and my brother agreed. After I came out, one of my moms commented that I “suddenly had boobs.”

          At 8 months, I saw another queer family member for the first time in years, I was wearing a snuggish women’s tank top, and I guess she still apparently didn’t notice anything either and she was immediately accepting and subtly affirming with no delay or awkwardness.

          Looking forward to trying this again with a friend or two now that it’s been over a year and it’s a bit more obvious.

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    “Mom, I started taking estradiol and spironolactone” “What for?” “Uhhhh?”

    • Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      To quote one of my favorite superheroes: “Drugs are great”. Good enough as a reason in this case 🤪

  • Smorty [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    yeaaa… alsuu u postd dis alrdi!

  • recursive_recursion they/them@lemmy.ca
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    Anyone know who the artist is?

    Sadly I wasn’t able to find them with my searchs :(

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      shave_your_eyebrows

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        Lmao they even continued the joke in the signature

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        I will not. I like my eyebrows 😠

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        Thanks!🤗🌻

  • Lily [she/her, pup/pup's]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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    we just handed them the script to read :p

  • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    It’s alright, take your time. We love you

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    So true.

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