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  • Rez@sh.itjust.workstoBikini Bottom Twitter@lemmy.world+999 messages
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    4 months ago

    No, I’ve met a lot of people like you, but honestly, I have a hard time understanding why you feel that way. I’m in a couple of small group chats with people I’m friends with in real life. A group chat makes it easier to organize meeting up and sharing pictures with everyone after. Besides that, in a group chat I feel less pressure to reply, because if I’m not interested in a topic or have nothing to say, someone else will pick up and the person who started it won’t feel ignored. In the same way, I feel I am able to share more easily, as I am not putting pressure on any one person to respond and I don’t risk feeling rejected, but often a person who I wouldn’t have expected to be intressed responds to my message that I would have not sent them personally so I feel like I get to know them better. I have no shame in admitting that I often mute these group chats when I’m trying to focus on something or am not interested in the current topic. However, I also know what it means to be in a group chat where I know almost no one and they are talking about thinks that only relate to them, so maybe that’s the majority of the experience you’ve had?





  • Yes, it’s really good! I do think that it can become a bit repetitive towards the end, but it’s worth it for the beginning moments of exploration and discovery. If you haven’t played a similar game like Morrowind before, I’d recommend looking for a guide that would explain character creation and skills. I never played the original, so I am no purist and would encourage you to check out some QoL mods and definitely turn on smaller dungeons in the settings, even for a first playtrough. Have fun, if you decide to try it!








  • If I understand correctly, you feel weird that she knew about you transitioning, but didn’t say anything. To me, it sounds like a nice thing: she waited for you to be ready, allowed you to say it on your own terms instead of risking to confront you at a bad time. Also, you say that your relationship wasn’t the best with her, but she still knew, to me that sounds like she still has a strong connection with you and feels and senses you the way only a mother does, which is great because it sounds like you really care about your relationship with your parents.





  • Rez@sh.itjust.workstoCyanide and Happiness@lemm.ee29 December 2023
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    10 months ago

    There’s this stupid theory, that men who “lean in” to the womans side are beta. People who believe this theory post edited pictures of famous couples with an added green line to show how the man is leaning in or show how a man is leaning out to explain that he’s an alpha. Obviously, this is complete BS.