• Tramdan@sh.itjust.works
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      1 day ago

      I went to a party while I was living in The Netherlands. Everybody else at the party was Dutch. They spent the entire evening speaking to each other in English for my benefit.

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          21 hours ago

          So fucking hard trying to learn Dutch when I was working over there, everyone switched to English on me as soon as I started speaking.

          Weaponized politeness.

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            8 hours ago

            It’s not weaponized politeness. It’s a love for efficient communication; everyone speaks English, so why not use it.

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              8 hours ago

              Weaponized efficiency

              I know it’s not meant to be shitty in any way it was just one of the funnier frustrations I had, I was genuinely trying to learn the language lmao

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              9 hours ago

              If you try speaking their native language, they can definitely tell by your accent, though.

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                9 hours ago

                yeah,I got a turkish accent. also, unless you’re SUUUPER anglo, people can just tell you have an accent, not a specific accent.

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      1 day ago

      I was visiting a friend in the Netherlands, who had to work one day which left me exploring Rotterdam alone. I commented that I was worried about what I was going to do for lunch, since I didn’t speak Dutch and didn’t know how I was going to order food.

      He said, “just go into a Burger King and start speaking English - the cashier will understand you unless they completely failed highschool.” I always appreciated that about Dutch culture. They all speak 3 or 4 languages seemingly effortlessly.

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        Okay but why go to Burger King except maybe to ask, “where can I get some good food in this town?” Surely the waitstaff in other places would have at least the same education.

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      24 hours ago

      In the Netherlands the person would not respond to the question:

      ‘Dove’ means deaf person in Dutch

      I know I shoehorned that joke in, but a friend of mine dated a partially deaf person that was angry because of that brand name and that was so absurdly funny to me that I needed to share