I agree. Having a natural tendency to want to solve a problem makes us want to fix it immediately but sometimes it’s not the answer, when they just want to vent or someone to listen.
@lgmjon64@JoMiran and if it’s “just listen,” just go do something else and active listen because wtf is the fuckin point amirite
Men bitch about things they want fixed. I don’t even know what the fuck is the point of bitching about something you *don’t* want fixed. If you don’t want it fixed why are you spending time and effort bitching about it?
I have been with wife almost thirty years. I wish it had occurred to me to ask this so many times before saying something. So many times.
I agree. Having a natural tendency to want to solve a problem makes us want to fix it immediately but sometimes it’s not the answer, when they just want to vent or someone to listen.
I ask my wife and kids if they need someone to help problem solve or just listen. It’s been a game changer.
@lgmjon64 @JoMiran and if it’s “just listen,” just go do something else and active listen because wtf is the fuckin point amirite
Men bitch about things they want fixed. I don’t even know what the fuck is the point of bitching about something you *don’t* want fixed. If you don’t want it fixed why are you spending time and effort bitching about it?
Because their mood needs fixing