I’m wondering, why can’t I be fun whenever I feel things are getting more serious with someone? Why can I just not be silly? Why can’t I play and be goofish with those that matter to me? Why must I be so damn dead serious?
I’m wondering, why can’t I be fun whenever I feel things are getting more serious with someone? Why can I just not be silly? Why can’t I play and be goofish with those that matter to me? Why must I be so damn dead serious?
I figured, in my case it is, I subconsciously shut down happiness, actually all positive feelings, because I can’t deal with the feelings that come with being positively vulnerable – sensory emotions of
I am going to be exploited now
, etcThus I don’t have real friends, really, because I just hang around with people I dislike, because I don’t feel like I am going to be robbed by them, because I can’t lose myself with them as I didn’t REALLY gave myself into the relationship.
And I keep people at distance, afar from me so that they can’t hurt me … wtf I hate this survival mechanism so much 🙊 🤦