Yes, I do have a full-time job, and I even enjoy it, but it doesn’t pay enough to survive in this hellscape of a world we live in. I lack the college degree required to get almost any decent-paying job (plus my last job hunt took MONTHS to get a lead), I don’t have the skills or originality to become an online content creator, nor the artistry or patience to create and sell trinkets on Etsy (plus, that would require an initial investment which I simply do not have). Should I set up a GoFundMe? OnlyFans? I wouldn’t really be offering anything except a charity basket/collection plate so that feels dishonest at best. Idk, I’m quite literally having a breakdown because I’m probably going to lose my car soon, and then my job, and then my apartment, and then my life. Any help at all would be appreciated. Thank you
You must log in or register to comment.
Buy in bulk and learn to cook, the knowledge is free on yt. You don’t need a yt sub, just use ublock addon to block ads.
Unfortunately, there are no simple, one size fits all solutions, and what is options you have really depends on your individual situation. Here’s the minimum anyone would need to help you:
- job situation - current income, hours, responsibilities, etc
- list of expenses - housing costs, food costs, etc
- general location - are you in San Francisco or Lincoln, Nebraska
- age - teenager? 20s? 30s? 50s? time matters
- total debts and interest rates
- assets - cash, car value, etc
- skills - formal education, practical skills, etc
- interests - if you were to get an education or go into a trade, what’s on the table?
In terms of general advice, I recommend deciding where you want to be in 5-10 years, and then figure out a way to get there. You have a lot of options, such as:
- trades - plumbing, electrician, drywall, etc
- community college
- self-employment - landscaping, small scale construction, etc
Good luck! It sounds like you’re motivated to get out of this mess, and that’s the most important ingredient. The next most important is to look past the current grind and make a plan.
[Copy-pasting my response from a very similar question, I’ll put your specific questions in an ‘edit’ below:
Giving you enough context to actually answer your question without giving up TOO much private info, in order:
Cubicle job where I make just under $20/hour (min. wage for my state is $15)
I don’t have a SET budget, but I really don’t spend that much :/ Rent is roughly half of my current paycheck (currently with 1 additional roommate but hopefully will get another in the next few months); Food is probably my biggest expense. Other than that, I have Spotify, YouTube, Xbox, and Microsoft Office accounts, but that total is about $60/month, which isn’t THAT much and, on the whole, has actually saved me money (so many ‘free’ games on Xbox it’s not even funny).
As for debt, I’ve got an account with a credit union, phone bill, car payments, car insurance, renter’s insurance, student loans, utilities, etc, etc. For a rough estimate (again, without giving too much away), recently I ended a week with ~$35, got my (2-week/80-hour) paycheck, paid all my bills, and ended up with ~$75. So, essentially, I made $.50/hour after bills
Edit: Location, American Midwest. Education, some years of college (a pretty good one, too) but never graduated. Age, early 30s. Aaand that’s about all I’m comfortable giving online
My husband and I didn’t have financial stability in office jobs until we moved into middle management. It’s a very different type of job, even if you’re doing the same sort of work. I don’t have a degree, but I have several innate traits that make me excel at it. My husband doesn’t have those innate skills, but he followed an educational path that gave him the credentials he needed to receive those opportunities (bachelor’s degree, then a project management certification).
That sucks. Sorry.
In your shoes, I would be shopping for a cheap beater car immediately. Put the word out among any friends.
Don’t be afraid to buy a beater. You can make a beater get you reliably from point A to point B with YouTube and a cheap tool set from Harbor Freight.
Also, let your boss know what’s up, if they’re not awful. They may have a lead on a vehicle. As the boss, calling in a favor to help a team membsr buy and maintain a cheap car is a hell of a lot easier than hiring a new good team member.
And to answer your question, I’m well past that stage now, but back when I made $20 / hour:
- I write out a budget, every month (I still do.) I didn’t use software, at first. I used to fold a piece of paper in half. On the left side of the fold I write each budget item description, on the right side of the fold I write each dollar amount. Then I add it up on my $4 solar calculator. Every month. It takes 20 minutes and it’s at least 50% responsible for my current wealth. The hourly rate of return on this stupid trick is mind bogglingly good. It’s easily the best investment I’ve ever made.
- I ate at home. I learned to cook three simple meals and ate them over and over again. One was scrambled eggs. One was a balogna sandwich. One was a tuna sandwich. I’m now still famous for my scrambled eggs. I don’t eat bologna or tuna anymore, if I can avoid it.
- I got very good at repairing my shit box fully paid off almost worthless car. I could still, today, land a job as a master mechanic’s apprentice, thanks to how much my beater broke and needed me to fix it. I was incredibly lucky to have mentors who could teach me car repair before YouTube existed. I can almost guarantee my shit box car was more reliable than any car you’re still paying off, after I fixed it so many times. Most shit box cars can become rock solid reliable with enough sweat and junk yards parts. I routinely put 300,000 miles on shitty brands of cars, before I reached the kind of wealth where I am now. Now that I’m living large, I buy four year old cars, with less than 100,000 miles on them. It’s quite the luxury, but I can afford it.
- I always repair my own appliances. Life is so much cheaper when a $17 part solves what could have been a $600.00 repair. YouTube has been incredibly helpful for this. I still repair almost all my own stuff because I now have more experience and a better handy-man track record than most folks I’ve ever hired.
I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. I hope things turn around for you.
This thing about the budget is absolutely golden. I learned it from Dave Ramsey and I do the exact same thing. I have a budget that I’ve worked out and I do it roughly every six months to a year and I sit down and I say, I’ve paid this, I’ve paid this, I’ve paid that, I’ve paid that, I still need to pay that and it has helped tremendously. A budget can really show you where you are fucking up and can cut back. It’s been an absolutely amazing tool and I would not want to automate it in any way because sitting down and doing it manually makes you see it.
Just be careful with Dave Ramsey’s advice. He’s good at getting people on track, but his investment advice sucks and he’s way too obsessed with avoiding debt tools. But if you’re in debt, he’s really motivating.
Yeah, true. I listened to him on getting out of debt and focusing on that, even though I have very little debt and none of it consumer credit cards.