• arakhis_
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    9 days ago

    unironically sat 2 hours in pure silence because there were no other inputs from both sides. so i rather just sit the silence out in isolation

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      9 days ago

      I did this too! Started out as a “test” or temper tantrum, but afterwards it felt so safe he didn’t start talking, that it really was a space where I was in control.

      Stupid clever therapist.

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        9 days ago

        sounds positive, glad it helps you. my message was more resignation based ^^