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Cake day: September 1st, 2023

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  • On antidepressants and in therapy, which is why I am still here. It is funny, though. Imagine it:

    Scene: several people are sitting in a zoom call, with cameras on. It’s dead silent.

    Coworker 1: Should we just get started?

    Coworker 2: Probably, pix’s missed the other meetings today too, I doubt they’ll show up now.

    Coworker 3: I’m starting to get pretty sick of them being so unreliable. I hope whatever they’re doing instead of at least letting us know they won’t be here is important.

    Hard cut to my torso and legs, neck and head out of frame, gently swinging suspended above the ground

    This continues for a couple seconds, letting the shock factor linger, before the Seinfeld outro slap bass starts playing





  • From what it sounds like, the song isn’t “criticizing hamas”, it’s celebrating the mass murder and systematic starvation of an entire ethnic group of people. That’s fucked up. If isreal wasn’t systematically starving an ethnic group to death and systematically murdering journalists and people providing aid, there wouldn’t be much upset about isreal waging war against hamas, because then it would actually be war against hamas and not genocide of the palestinian people.



  • There’s plenty of other good reliable makers that aren’t scummy to their employees and customers. nobd.info If you’re in the US, twin tail creations, all night toys, fantasy drove and square peg toys are all absolutely fantastic. 3 out of 5 of my top favorites are from all night toys, the couple who run it are cammers who are extreme size people and couldn’t get toys large enough so they decided to make their own and goddamn it really shows that it’s a great thing to have people so involved in using toys being the ones to design them, they know exactly what goes into a good toy.

    Exotic erotics is good too, but their website is really bad. Just hard to use. Topped toys is really good, but they’re canadian so ordering from them directly you have to worry about international shipping. You can get them through some retailers like mr s leather.



  • My parents have been really accepting of me being bi, and are accepting of trans people in general but on the subject my dad said something along the lines of “don’t expect me to call you they”, but honestly I think he’d be accepting if I told him. I’m very lucky to have the parents I do, I know their love for me is more important to them than anything else about me. My sister I’ve told and she’s amazingly supportive. Probably never going to tell extended family, if I see them in person they can draw their own conclusions







  • It sounds like you actively enjoy your current gender identity. Most people who go on to change theirs don’t actively enjoy what it used to be, at best they generally just don’t feel connected to it. This was the case for me; I never felt manly, or enjoyed anything about being male. It didn’t bother me, but I never really connected to it.

    Ultimately, the only thing required for you to be trans is that you decide you want to be; there isn’t some magic checklist of signs or requirements that if you meet, you’re trans. If you think you might be happier in life with a fem gender identity, it’s up to you whether or not to act on it.