I did not take it to personally I did what I always do when somebody behaves like a bimbo I hold up a mirror so they can see how they look acting a fool.
I do plenty of wrong and make mistakes it’s how you learn in life. Also no in this instance I do not believe calling you out for your first response being un-constructive rude and obnoxious was wrong because those things are wrong asking for help to figure something out and being new here clearly asking in the wrong group for kindness was nothing more then ignorance on my part one for expecting civility and two not knowing anything about this site so if did anything “wrong” it was simply being new to this site. That said I reiterate it says a lot about your “community”
Naivety comes along with believing your nobody will ever figure out what kind of person you truly are. I have no fear of being myself because I know that who I am is not one who seeks out any kind of gratification but is thankful when it arrives. Living life expecting praise and reward for all you day or do is naive being good for the simple reason that it’s good is called being grown.
Only some one who does not understand the concept I just spoke of would redirect in such a way.
Only when faced with bad attitudes, picking for the sake of picking or those who feel comfortable sitting in there own feces because nobody has ever told them their crap stink.
I find that calling people out for not behaving as what truth may not be a golden rule but is expected from another human being to behave like with a level of respect, dignity and tact. The only people in this world who do not change much from childhood are the same people who say “I am just mean that’s who I am” a very clear signal that they have not grown in life, ever self reflected or understood/understand there own problematic behaviors and how they impact others. Nothing pisses me off more then watching those who have no excuse but to know better behave like a child who has never dealt with true real life issues before.
Because human being should treat one another as human beings how is that a concept beyond your scope. I am guessing you have never seen somebody suffering in some way and said that a living breathing person I should do something kind even if it’s just for a fleeting moment because being treated like a person even just once in your life is better then never getting to experience what it’s like to be thought of and considered. Even animals will protect and sometimes die saving another.
This apparently the place where people go to get unhelpful angry advice or if they need to cry before a big scene just post on ask Lemmy and wait the gems will just start rolling in.
You are real fine bunch of folks I have to tell ya. You can’t start off by pointing somebody in the right direction in a kind way the first time know it has to be a bunch of trolling comments it says something about your community that the person being ganged up on is receiving no kindness from anybody here. What a joke!
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