Due to hormone issues, I was basically presented with a choice to transition if I wanted. It was a serious consideration that I had to make. Took over a year to decide. I wished I was fem (still kinda do) but I couldn’t part with my lil buddy. Femboys weren’t really a thing back then, so yeah. Not every GQ person needs to want to undergo GRS to “qualify” as trans. Gatekeepy bullshit.

Some folks refuse to believe there are different levels of dysphoria. Like so many things, it’s a spectrum.

Any device or software that allows people to communicate is going to be used for hook-ups. It’s etched into the machine code at the heart of the internet.