Jack of random trades at random times that randomly catch my interest for a random amount of time.

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Cake day: February 12th, 2025

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  • I started out customizing my Neovim shortcuts, too, since my keyboard layout is set to Dvorak, but after realizing that I’d have to do that for everything that used Vim shortcuts I forced myself to get used to the defaults. I used to use Vimium, a browser extension/addon that incorporated Vim shortcuts into your browsing. You don’t even need to touch the mouse. You just hit “f” and bring up letters by links and type the letters to go to them. “Shift-f” would bring up link letters that open in a new tab. j and k scroll up and down. Things like that.

    Eventually, I moved to Qutebrowser instead; a browser that comes built in with vim-like commands. O will bring up “:open -t” for new tab. Lowercase will bring up :open which would open in the same tab. You can make quickmarks, too, which allow for custom site abbrevations. So I hit “o” and type lmy to go to Lemmy now. It’s quite a nice browser. Open source and runs on QT-Webengine. You can use Vim commands, too. :q will quit, of course, but :wq will quit while saving your open tabs. It’s actually really smooth and has built in dark mode for websites. :Ss will take you to the huge settings list, but you can opt for python config (or hybrid config) as well. You can use brave-adblock, python-adblock or both and add your own adblock lists in.

    There’s a cheatsheet for it here.

    I’m going off topic now (I love Qutebrowser), but I decided not to change the shortcuts because there are so many applications that use Vim commands that it would take forever to change them all. I recently went back to my old custom shortcuts and found that I hated them.





  • I have insomnia. I sleep 4 hours at a time most days. Every tiny noise wakes me. Every bump my apartment neighbors make gives me heart palpitations. I can’t even sleep with my partner’s light snoring some nights. I can’t keep a normal sleep schedule. I know what I’m talking about.

    There are nights and days I can’t sleep at all. The anxiety then builds and I can’t sleep because now I’m way too past tired to be tired. Everything trembles in my vision and I see weird diagonal static everywhere I look. Light becomes too much for me to even bear and the migraines become intense.

    And you know? I don’t take it out on my partner. I worked with my doctor to fix it. Was the answer prescription drugs? Yes. It had to be. Nothing else would work. Dyphenhydramine sets off my RLS and SSRIs set off RLS in my arms for some reason.

    I wouldn’t have fucking weighed in if I didn’t know what I was talking about. Step off with your assumption crap.

    Edit: I’ll keep the original message, but after reading it I realized I got way too heated and I want to apologize. As someone with severe anxiety, ADHD, and insomnia I just felt slighted. You didn’t realize that I could have insomnia. I’m sorry for lashing out at you.

    I just know the hell of insomnia all too well. I go down rabbit holes of anxiety and feel the pain of material existence on a daily basis. In order to sleep, I need to armor up, grab a sword, and prepare to fight a goddamn dragon some days, but I’ll be damned if I let it control my life and my relationship.









  • I have a friend who does dev work and swears by Apple, but he does use Linux on the side as his main machine. Ever thought of diving into NixOS? I’ve used it for a few months and really enjoyed it once I could read and write nixlang.

    I don’t dev that much, but apparently it can run reproducible environments for nearly every OS and you can have multiple environments via flakes. Need one for Golang? Need one for React? It can do it. You can even access it from your mac. I don’t know much about that side of it, though, just that it can.






  • In that case, your partner should find a solution to their sleeping disorder. I can open chip bags, do dishes, drop things, watch TV and there’s no issue if my partner is asleep. And our apartment is small. She is a deep sleeper though.

    I’m the light and agitated sleeper, actually. And instead of lashing out or pointing fingers, I got it addressed. Now on bad sleep nights I take two hydroxyzine for anxiety and light sleeplessness two hours before bed. I sleep so hard I tend to drool everywhere. Normally I’m a high anxiety jaw clencher when I sleep.

    I highly recommend looking into something like that. Hydroxyzine is a very light and harmless option. Its an antihistamine, which makes it good for allergies as well. Its basically a strong benadryl. There are some other benefits as well, like muscle relaxation, pain relief, nausea relief, and airway opening.

    As someone with ADHD and sleep trouble, it works good. Doctors are pretty relaxed about prescribing it, since its very high on the safety meter and non-habitual. Sorry for going off on a tangent, but it seems like your partner could have a slight sleep disorder, especially if its gone so far to put you both in separate rooms (if that is the case).



  • The real question is, do they HAVE to be there for them to go to sleep? Because if they needed to sleep, what stopped them? Sounds to me like there’s a sleeping problem here and that’s not OP’s fault.

    I don’t see any way that OP messed with their sleep. A simple “I’m going to bed, try not to be too loud when you come home.” would have done wonders. Then OP could chat, come home, do whatever chores quietly, and go to bed.

    Whether you have a job or not does not relate to what privileges of freedom you get.