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Cake day: January 3rd, 2024

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  • There was one where women shared stories of them getting raped, because they found this to be arousing. Most of the time, they were intentionally putting themselves in situations where they expected the risks of getting raped to be higher.

    Examples:

    • Going to the bar showing a lot of skin, flirting, and drinking too much, or pretending to be drunk.
    • Going to a man’s home, and pretending to fall asleep, with a skirt.
    • Showing off her naked body next to a busy highway.

    I think they even had insider jargon.

    Can’t find it anymore, maybe it was closed. It’s been a long while I’ve even went on Reddit at all.






  • What I would change in my case:

    • Engage with people, even if it’s awkward or you have something more fun and that takes less effort right now
    • Get a basic understanding of personal finance (read a book or two)
    • Don’t be content with the bare minimum. You’ll spend a lot of time working. Try to get as much as possible for yourself for every hour working.

    But I think each person’s realities will vary a lot. For example, regarding the first bullet point, maybe you’re extraverted and already a social butterfly, in which case the advice doesn’t apply.