• Jackie's Fridge@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    I am stressed out by groups of people and have some (not crippling) social anxiety. I tend to come home right after work as it’s my happy place. I don’t see the appeal of bars, libraries, etc as a Place To Be because I have my home (which is a privilege I am thrilled to be able to have) and bought one so that I can be there instead of out in an environment that isn’t mine.

    I do have a virtual third place if that counts - it’s a Discord server. The people there are friendly and I can always lurk or leave if I don’t want to socialise.

  • taladar@sh.itjust.works
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    9 months ago

    What is a “Third Place”? The only definition I know is as a place that is neither home nor work in an urban environment but that is less personal.

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      9 months ago

      Correct. They largely went away for various reasons but still feature heavily in media.
      OP is asking if you go to a place that is neither home nor work.