• spujb@lemmy.cafe
      2·
      4 months ago

      and herein lies the inherent contradiction of misogynistic objectification 😞😞

      woman who sleep with men are sluts. women who won’t sleep with me? also sluts.

      • Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
        1·
        4 months ago

        I mean someone can still sleep with a lot of people even when it doesn’t include you. So it’s not necessarily contradictory

    • Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
      1·
      4 months ago

      Some just find the idea of their partner having had a lot of other partners unappealing. I get it, it’s a really common thing. I’m sure some of it is sexism but having a ton of previous partners isn’t very appealing to a lot of women either. Plenty of jokes about someone having so many diseases that their dick falls off lol

      • ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.de
        11·
        4 months ago

        It’s okay to not find it appealing but it’s still not okay to call someone a slut because you feel like they had too many sexual partners. It’s easy as that ¯_(ツ)_/¯

        • Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
          1·
          4 months ago

          I didn’t mean to imply calling someone a slut was okay, just that thinking someone is a slut is just an “ick” thing for many.

          • ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.de
            01·
            4 months ago

            They are not slut. There’s no reason to think of someone like that. Having more sexual partners than you are being comfortable with doesn’t make someone a slut.

              • XIIIesq@lemmy.world
                01·
                4 months ago

                I’d argue that the word means that you care more about having “fun” than having “virtue”, but as long as noone is getting hurt, I see nothing wrong with that. Life is short.