• ameancow@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    Aesthetic “Leftists”

    Absolutely infuriating. These are people who spend a lot of time on discord, closely nurturing a group of diverse people of specific ethnic or gender/sexual identities because it makes them feel very progressive but makes no effort to see their “friends” as humans and won’t hold them accountable when any of them become abusive or hassle other friends in the group. These are the college-kids who will commit all their energy to fighting a school-mascot which bothers nobody, while literal nazis march on another part of the campus. These are the ones who create campaigns to “take down” another popular leftist for saying something like the word “retarded” while actual threats to humanity rise in power. And generally just find it a lot easier to attack people ostensibly on their side than the actual challenge of fighting for actual community organization efforts against a rising tide of fascism and hate.

    For these kids being progressive or leftist is entirely about preserving an in-club of specific people who can hate outsiders, but they feel they have a broader societal blessing for the exclusionary and wildly performative attitudes.

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      22 hours ago

      for saying something like the word “retarded” while actual threats to humanity rise in power

      That one is such a sad phenomenon. I recently saw it in a community I’m in: “Crazy”. If the word was once derogatory towards a group of people, I’d say it has long since lost its teeth, while the stigma it used to express continues to exist independently of individual words. Words have power, but fighting words is useless if the power goes unchecked and self-destructive if other, worse powers grow while you’re distracted.

      That’s not to say you shouldn’t be mindful with your language, but maybe focus on the bigger issue first. I’m personally not a fan of people casually calling things autistic that aren’t, because I’m autistic and my need for clear, unambiguous language compels me to have certain specific terms keep their specific meaning. If you misuse it, I might bring it up (as a personal opinion type thing, I’m just as prone to error or misunderstandings as anyone else), but I wouldn’t attempt to “take you down” or anything over it while we’re both fighting people that do worse than just misuse language.

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        12 hours ago

        fighting words is useless if the power goes unchecked

        I’m going to steal this.

        In the meantime, I make deliberate efforts to NOT censor or filter my language if I’m not clearly attacking someone and someone takes issue with my use of… sigh… “crazy” then I know right away that person is NOT an alley to a greater cause, so if anything it does tend to save me some time. I rather let the sheltered kids argue it out with each other if the term “mad” is a problem or if doors should have five doorknobs at different levels to serve people of different heights. (I just made this one up on the spot, but fully expect to see it as the next major culture war flashpoint.)

        The right has an advantage in that they don’t even think in language as much. This all exists on a spectrum of course, and strengths can become weaknesses in other areas, but it’s very hard to teach people that kind of nuance. But the lack of language-based thinking leads to more cohesive in-groups who don’t pick apart each other’s beliefs. They’re able to connect with each other far easier as emotional monkeys, but this also leads to the reinforcement of primitive emotions like fear of strangers and people who look or talk different.

        As someone recently diagnosed as autistic also, I have become fond of giving people “the pass” if they take issue with my ableist language. It’s good for a laugh.