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minus-squareInstantnudeln@feddit.deOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·10 months agoYea, but being soft on myself also doesn’t work, and I just lose my patience with myself real quick because it’s annoying that I never get anything done.
minus-square𝓹𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼𝓼@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·10 months agoif neither works then you might as well be kind to yourself, ne
minus-square𝓹𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼𝓼@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·10 months agoit’s hard work! I struggle with it myself, everyday here’s a secret, though: you’re good, actually, even if you don’t Do Thing. I will believe this for you, even if your brain won’t
minus-squareGormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·10 months agoIt’s might sound kinda silly but one thing that helped me be kinder to myself was thinking about how I treat others I’d never treat people I cared about how I was treating myself so trying to be as kind to myself as I was to others was the goal I set for myself And overtime it became easier and easier to be kind to myself about my short comings Yeah I may fail to do all the tasks I set out for myself today but I did accomplish somethings It may even be little things some days and other days it’s not a whole lot at all But the kinder I was to myself the more I found myself able to do the things I set out to do I still stumble some days but that’s okay
minus-squareInstantnudeln@feddit.deOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·10 months agoThanks for these words. This is a smart point of view.
Yea, but being soft on myself also doesn’t work, and I just lose my patience with myself real quick because it’s annoying that I never get anything done.
if neither works then you might as well be kind to yourself, ne
I Can’t… :(
it’s hard work! I struggle with it myself, everyday
here’s a secret, though: you’re good, actually, even if you don’t Do Thing. I will believe this for you, even if your brain won’t
thanks :(
It’s might sound kinda silly but one thing that helped me be kinder to myself was thinking about how I treat others
I’d never treat people I cared about how I was treating myself so trying to be as kind to myself as I was to others was the goal I set for myself
And overtime it became easier and easier to be kind to myself about my short comings
Yeah I may fail to do all the tasks I set out for myself today but I did accomplish somethings
It may even be little things some days and other days it’s not a whole lot at all
But the kinder I was to myself the more I found myself able to do the things I set out to do
I still stumble some days but that’s okay
Thanks for these words. This is a smart point of view.