I’m curious what yalls expierence with this is

  • mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    4 months ago

    As a trans woman, being fetishized is pretty much the only option I have if I want to date men. Sad to hear trans men deal with this too.

    • cowboycrustation [he/him]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPM
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      4 months ago

      It’s pretty crazy if you look on any porn site under the trans category. If there even is porn with a transmasc person (rare), it’s almost always with a cis man and the trans man is always on the bottom. Feels gross that that’s the only thing available most of the time.

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        3 months ago

        That might be a category with higher straight crossover appeal (and as a result preferred algorithmically without additional data prompts) but trans dom kinks are prevalent.

        Anecdotal but a friend told me she shifted her client base to cis male subs for various reasons, the foremost being greater demand.