These are reasonable, but he’s asking in the wrong place (a pub). Not that its impossible to find someone like that in a pub, but its more difficult. If you want that type of girl, you need to earnestly be both the type of man she wants and at a place where those types of woman are found (churches, charities, college clubs, laid back social gatherings, etc etc). Don’t go to those places acting fake or overly pushy tho; that’s way worse than being your normal, imperfect self. A lot of churches are chill these days, and pastors know a random dude showing up is likely looking for a wife. Just be honest, and if it gets uncomfortable or you have a bad feeling about the place, just leave. Not telling anyone to find God, just giving ideas.

Ultimately, life happens. You might find someone absolutely perfect for you except for one of your deal breakers… And before long it seems trivial. Seen it happen. So don’t be so rigid you miss out on the opportunity of a lifetime if it crops up.

Edit: spelling.