• Sagifurius@lemm.ee
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    9 months ago

    Ain’t a “might” about learned helplessness. The amount of rationalization in this day and age about people failing so hard of their own accord that they don’t have 300 bucks is fucking pathetic. Like just fucking do something, anything, except continue doing the same thing. Sell some fucking drugs, why not, quick financial.boost and go.

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      9 months ago

      Actually I agree, it’s far easier to simply let things continue the way they are than to take a leap of faith.

      My dad had been talking about leaving the country since we were kids, he just said he wanted to wait for us to go off to college first. But nobody really believed him - he was an underpaid college professor with little to no life savings.

      But when Covid hit he sold his house, sold his car, and grabbed a one way ticket to Ecuador. He went down without ever having been, not knowing where he’d end up living, and is now 2 years later living his best life. I visited him and it’s heaven, I’m honestly jealous.

      Edit: For those of you downvoting, his “house” was a shitty condo in Jersey and his car was an old nearly broken Honda Fit. He didn’t get much from either.

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        9 months ago

        Hey, if you’re poor, just sell your house and your car, that you have when you poor. Everyone has at least couple of houses to sell, right?

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          9 months ago

          OK maybe not everybody but you can always wait for your inheritance, right?

          Edit: do I really need to add /s? Or why the downvotes?

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        9 months ago

        A fucking house is “little to no life savings”? Can you hear yourself?!