• Driftking@lemmy.mlOP
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      1 year ago

      I agree with this. I have found that most women do not however. It has been a great trouble for me, to talk about, when trying to find a new partner.

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              1 year ago

              OP’s out there on first dates asking if they have a problem with him doing it…

              I can’t imagine women are bringing it up

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                1 year ago

                Not necessarily first dates. I just answer truthfully when the topic comes up. I don’t want to have it be a problem further down the line

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                  1 year ago

                  I just answer truthfully when the topic comes up

                  It’s just really hard to believe a women asks if you’ve had sex with a sex worker…

                  Most people don’t ask for numbers, let alone details.

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                    1 year ago

                    I ask my partners because I do not want to be with someone who pays for sex. Simply because our views on sex would be very different which leads to problems in the relationship, from my experience. Also, it would be quite dumb to lie on this because than we are both just wasting our time.