Okay the title is a bit exaggerated, but honestly not far off. This post is very mundane and a bit long, but thought it fits the community.

I’m visiting my home country and went shopping for pants, there were “30% off everything!” signs with a tiny text underneath that said “member discount” (don’t have membership). Not a problem, did not notice and I don’t care for such marketing tricks to get you into the store but okay.

Picked up couple of pants, went to the cashier and they asked me “do you have our membership?” - I answered no and expected the follow up question whether I’d like to join, but, to my positive surprise the cashier just happily responded “okay, not a problem!” and continued to bag my stuff.

I stood ready to pay and then the cashier said “now I just need your phone number and you can pay”. Hold up. What. I did not expect that, I honestly had a burst of anger inside me (never gonna take it on a cashier, they are just doing their job). I asked nicely why do I need to give my phone number and I was told that to register me as a member so I can get the discount.

I declined and said I don’t want to join and would like to just pay.

The entire interaction after questioning why they need my phone number was awkward, as if I had been the first person to decline, the weirdo, aluminum foil hat wearing hermit.

This was just one of many interactions in the recent years that make me feel as if I was a weirdo for not sharing all my info around. The worst is when everyone keeps telling me “its just an app, just download it and use that why do you make things complicated” or “just sign up you don’t need to pay anything”.

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    • Chozo@fedia.io
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      2 months ago

      Yeah, that’ll teach a lesson the minimum wage employee who didn’t make the rules.

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        2 months ago

        It doesn’t waste their time. They are getting paid by the hour. As long as you are friendly it doesn’t hurt anyone to give a wrong phone number to get a discount.

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          2 months ago

          I am absolutely not advocating rudeness to the cashier.

          Give them the opportunity for malicious compliance.

          Allow them to answer every question and have a pleasant break from the monotony, knowing full well that they are being cheerful and helpful just like the training videos and handbook demand they be.

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            2 months ago

            I am absolutely not advocating rudeness to the cashier.

            IMO, lying to somebody, specifically with malicious intent (as opposed to a white lie to avoid hurting somebody) is rudeness. Just because they might not catch onto it doesn’t change anything; you’re being a bad actor in this scenario, and taking out your frustration on somebody who had nothing to do with your ire.

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          2 months ago

          Except the person you just signed up for unwanted spam texts.

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            2 months ago

            (Area code) 867 5309

            It already has an account, and nobody who gets that number keeps it for long, it may not even be assigned anymore because of how much spam it probably receives.

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              2 months ago

              People do have that phone number, you know. It’s not reserved or blocked.

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      2 months ago

      Ah, I was wondering where all the Karens went.

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        2 months ago

        Why you assume your have to be rude? They are all underpaid by the hour…you think the cashier gives a damn about answering dumb questions when they themselves ask for personal info that IS NOT REQUIRED.

        Waste their time…cashiers don’t give a shit

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          I didn’t say to be rude to the cashier. They make hourly wage, doesn’t matter how many people they check out.

          Make the company pay. Cause less product to be sold per hour. Cause more cashiers to be required. Make it more expensive to have the data collection program than to not have it. Be the change you want to see in the world.

          Or just let them get away with it. Your call.

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        2 months ago

        Cool assumption bro. Hope that works out for you.
        I am never rude to the poor people that have to work retail. I know the pain; I have been on the other side of the counter.

        What I’m talking about is malicious compliance.

        They tell the cashiers to push the program and be helpful? Fine. I will let that cashier be the most helpful employee ever and at the same time gum up the company data collection system with fake information.

        At the same time as more punshment to the company they will see reduced sales and throughput requiring additional cashiers (more hours/pay for those people).

        But please bring on the fake internet point brigade.