• Pringles@lemm.ee
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      I had a friend at university who was in quite a long relationship who kept a list of people she wanted to sleep with in case they broke up. So when they eventually had a break up, she postponed getting back together until she had cleared the list, which took her about two months. I was not on the list, in case you’re wondering, nor did I want to.

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        6 months ago

        For real? That’s both sad and creepy.

        I hope the other person in the relationship bailed for their own sake.

        • 🦄🦄🦄@feddit.de
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          6 months ago

          That’s both sad and creepy.

          How is it either of those things? Let people fuck who they want to fuck as long as it is consentual, who cares?

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            6 months ago

            “Hey babe. I made a mistake. I want to get back together.”

            “Sure no problem! Me too! I just need to plow through this list of dudes I’m gonna fuck first.”

            Seems like an awfully shitty thing to do to someone that’s genuinely interested in you.

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                6 months ago

                My point is if I’m interested in someone (man or women) I’m going to have zero interest in waiting for them to fuck a bunch of people first.

                Why would I? I clearly don’t mean anything to you if you need to fuck a bunch of people first.

                You just be young or have never been in a loving relationship before.

                If I told my girlfriend right before I started dating her that before we start I need to go bang 15 women, should have told me to get lost. And rightfully so.

                I can’t help but find this to be a sad reality.

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                  6 months ago

                  Lol I am not young and have been in several decade-long relationships but sure go ahead assuming.

                  I clearly don’t mean anything to you if you need to fuck a bunch of people first.

                  Thats the real sad mindset I think. You are clearly tying value to number of sexual partners.

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              6 months ago

              Sounds kinda hot to me. To spice things up, I’d want to hear all about it when we get back together.

              E: Kink shamers, the lot of you! I’d rather be with an experienced lady over someone who’s only been with me.