This will be my first Christmas without her. I’ve already had our first anniversary (23rd) and her first birthday (44th), and now Christmas, New Year (which we always spent together) and my birthday.
The problem with this diagram – with this theory – is that it assumes the outer circle can grow. That it is not moored, permanently, to the inner circle.
That’s how it appeared on tumblr – when I cropped it I cropped it just above the caption “growing around grief”
I have made a lot of mistakes but somehow missing out the word “to” is not one of them.
Oh i wouldn’t care if you had cropped it out by mistake, i only mentioned it because it looks like it made it into official publication back in the 90s with the typo - which i find interesting