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Feel kinda bad for the younger generations. At this point they can’t even go to other countries to find a significant other because they’ll just plague those other countries too with their degenerate social culture.
I met my SO in… I think it was 2017? Well after the rise of Tinder. We did not meet on Tinder, and neither of us have ever had an account on there.
We met through a social group for a game (not dissimilar to pokemon go), where we happened to play for the same team in the same area. We would have team meet ups occasionally and all go for coffee and to play the game at locations where there was a lot of things to do in the game.
I have not, and likely will never, use something like Tinder. Not only is it unlikely that my current relationship would fail, but even if I found myself single for some reason, I just couldn’t care less. I’ve been through it all already. A LOT of shit relationships to the point where I’m kind of over it. If I didn’t have my current relationship, I’m not sure I’d care to get into another one. To put it simply, my partner and I are so well matched that we’ve never felt the need to even raise our voice at eachother. I have an amazing relationship, we’re both happy and comfortable. The only thing left to do is put a ring on it and wait for our inevitable demise. I wouldn’t try to find any cheap substitute for them. Nobody has a chance of measuring up. I don’t think that would be fair to anyone involved.
I have no illusions. I was profoundly lucky. So I don’t expect anyone to “get” it.
I am with them, and they are with me, now, until the end of our days. Separate, and together.
Frog or foe?
Dating apps are terrible because they don’t want you to actually find a good partner. If you find a good partner, you have no need for the dating app anymore. So they’ll match you with people that’ll peak your interest, but ultimately won’t work out.
Obviously there’s more to it than just that, but this is a big part of the problem.
I had more luck meeting people on a penpal app than getting a single match on any of the major dating apps. The algorithm just always seems to sort me out. It can really mess with your self esteem when you’re never getting a single match or reply to your messages.
It’s definitely not me, because I get hundreds of letters on Slowly, where it’s actually about communication and I’m even going on a vacation with a girl I met there next week.
Tinder & Co. are useless, objectifying apps that build on greed and should be burned to the ground.
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On the other hand, it’s much easier to miss red flags via a dating app than in person.
Also, Dating Via Algorithms(aka via apps) is hell. Women get bombarded with bad apples and men have to fight through bots and (s)camgirls, and then hope the algorithm on the site even shows you people you want to date.
Dunno Hinge works fine for me as a guy. Not many bots and no camgirls. But compared to my gf I have to like more while she can just sit back wait for likes to come in. It’s true tho that the girls liking me match better with what I’m looking for compared to the guys my gf receives. It’s not like super random or proportionally less attractive girls either.
What I really enjoy about it (so far) is that intentions are clear beforehand. I don’t have to overthink a hookup convo in a bar with some random person who will most likely reject me anyway.
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Yeah I feel you. It’s defo some work to go through it haha. My gf unpauses her hinge for a minute and gets like 7 likes lol.
Facts. I feel like dating apps work great for people who struggle to approach strangers. The people I met with also struggled with this, but are actually super social individuals.
I don’t see how the app will protect you if someone lies on there to meet someone and then rob them
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