I’m a man. Only ever dated, been attracted to women. Recently I met this guy and I’m having weird feelings. I can’t quite tell if I’m attracted to him as a person or just like the way he treats me; nonetheless something makes me want to treat him differently than any other guys - the way I would a girl I suppose. My friends say I might be attracted to femininity in general regardless of gender and that’s why I feel this way, and the reason why it hasn’t surfaced until now is because I haven’t yet met a guy to tick those boxes. Wondering if anyone has been through something similar.

  • nesc@lemmy.cafe
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    24 days ago

    Yes, I’ve even tried to date someone. Everything started great but moved into ‘what am I doing’ territory fast. Ended on awkward note where you say sorry I’m not actually interested after leading another person on for some time.