• gamermanh@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    7 months ago

    assumed feminism is for women

    It’s because of the name and history of fighting for women. The movement should have gone for “egalitarianism” if they didn’t want people to think of women first/exclusively.

    It’s why I’ve vehemently rejected the label of feminist even when I’m in feminist spaces with feminist friends: I’m here for everyone, there’s a word for that, use it.

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      Except movements are often named after the oppressed group. Black Lives Matter, for example, doesn’t really want cops to only stop killing Black people. Black people are just disproportionately impacted.

      Feminism is about raising up women’s status in society. That benefits men in the process though.

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        Except movements are often named after the oppressed group

        That’s nice, but I don’t care. Doing things in a stupid way because “that’s how we’ve always done it” is literally conservativism, which I’m not really for.

        This thread originates from a comment surprised that people would look at a gendered term and assume actions done in that name are for said gender, this should be an obvious and predictable outcome, one that’s been seen countless times, and has a simple and easy fix

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          No your position is dumb, it is petty and so silly and a perfect example of how dumb you’re being. No one decided this. It just developed this way. Your critique is the name?

          Feminism is an egalitarian movement that likely you’d not even know what the word meant had this movement not continued for its history. Feminism is the grandmother of almost any egalitarian movement today.

          Fool. You’re a petty fool

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      It’s because of the name and history of fighting for women

      Sounds like different movement then. There is nothing wrong with saying feminism did its job and now we need equalism.

      You might be okay with that refocus, but maaannnyyy feminist aren’t.

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      That’s petty and sexist as fuck. Literally the perfect example of toxic masculinity

      It is the equivalent of only using soaps labeled “for men”

      Do you need things gendered correctly for you to use it? Maybe your gender should’ve fought for equality first then. Maybe then you can have your Malenism or whatever you’d want it to be called

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          Excuse me? Are you really this?

          This man is against a movement that champions for him because the name is gendered towards a group that he doesn’t identify with. He is resistant to it and the position it takes up because of the name.

          There is no council of “the Feminists” who vote the name. This is a term that has evolved into this place, not one person put it this way and the absolute silly pettiness of it is his reason to oppose it?

          And you think I’m failing to understand that position? You know who takes positions like that? Children.

          foh my god how absolutely childish 🤣

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            To address the least objectionable part of this comment (it bugs me and the rest has been covered already):

            This is a term that has evolved into this place, not one person put it this way

            How do you expect terms to evolve without people making arguments like this? You accept it as a fact that these terms evolve and are agreed upon somehow, but you’re missing that this happens through individual people making points like this.

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              Why does it need to evolve? It is feminism you know what it is. You are for all of it but the name, so you won’t support it?

              And don’t do what dummy above said and claim you support it but don’t use the label because it is gendered. That is some privileged ass shit bro. Bore me to death out here

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                7 months ago

                It is feminism you know what it is.

                I mean, we do, but a surprising amount of people don’t. This is precisely why the name should evolve. Well, that and the perspective that the movement’s goals have changed significantly enough from individual liberation of women to comprehensive equality of everyone, which should come with a corresponding change in the name. These are related.

                You are for all of it but the name, so you won’t support it?

                It’s more that if people are informally introduced to the movement, their preconceptions are formed by its name. This can turn them off from seeking or accepting the real nature of the movement once it’s explained to them. As a reminder, most people put very little thought into this sort of thing, so making a good impression for the people who are potential allies is important. You can argue that that’s stupid and shouldn’t be necessary, but it won’t stop it from working like that.

                And don’t do what dummy above said and claim you support it but don’t use the label because it is gendered.

                I don’t think I’ve ever encountered a situation where it’s useful to directly say “I am a feminist” because it’s generally clear from my other opinions, but I would if the situation required it. I do agree that an alternative label would be better, though.

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                  That’s not evolution lol that is forced rebranding because of how some dudes feel. If their hurdle is the term feminism then good, they’re not ready to be adults.

                  Shake my god damn mother fuckin entire head bro. shake that shit left and then right over how foolish you boys are.

                  Horsepower, Butterfly, Literally, Blowjob, The Democraric People’s Republic of Korea. You cool with that shit but not Feminism? Because your weiner isn’t in the title???

                  Like bro there are still places called Indian Creek in America. Feminism is the term we gotta go after though?

                  I bet every dude saying this line of thought uses words like literally and doesn’t bat an eye.

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          7 months ago

          Men’s Liberation instance with dudes asking to change the name of feminism

          But I’m the troll lmfaooo